My man is getting some viagra

[raecoffey]

So my boyfriend has an appointment with his doc on March 17th. So we will be getting lucky on St. Patrick's day. This will be an interesting experiment in patience as we've been together, and waiting to , for 10 months.

I will give you a play by play (just kidding) after the game.

[Tdarcos]

So my boyfriend has an appointment with his doc on March 17th. So we will be getting lucky on St. Patrick's day.

I'm not surprised he'd want Viagra, as opposed to the alternative. I am surprised how anyone would want to take Ciallis after their commercials showed once the guy used it, if they both bathed, their house disintegrated. I thought this stuff was to make things stand up, not fall apart!

And now this message probably won't post since it named both ED drugs, it trips the spam filter!

This will be an interesting experiment in patience as we've been together, and waiting to , for 10 months.

If you don't already have it, buy a bottle of personal lubricant. After a long period of waiting you might not lubricate as much, or as easily. Don't use vaseline; any oil-baded or petroleum-based products can and will eat holes in latex contraceotives.

As for contraceptipn, make sure the two of you have decided in advance what you're going to use. If either of you has a latex allergy, they have condoms in vinyl.

If both of you have no STI's you can transfer, there are non-barrier methods such as diaphragm with foam or contraceptive film.

The "rhythm method" is not a valud form of contraceprion! There is a technical term for women who depend on the rhythm method. Mothers. "Pulling out" or the man withdrawing just before his orgasm is a really bad idea as far ad contraception is concerned.

If you want almosr perfect protection, use two forms simultaneously, like condoms and film. This is one pkace where mathematics is useful. Any form.of contraceptive can fail, some worse tgan others. But the potential failure probability for multiple forms is not the sum, but the product. So if one uses two forms each with a failure probability of 3% the potential for combined failure drops from in 3 in 100 or probability of 0.03, to .09%; 9 in 10,000 or a probability of 0.0009.

"If you aren' t comfortable discussing contraception with your partner, you're not ready to have sex.'

You might both be too excited about getting busy. Slow down and take time. You can always try again in an hour or so. Plan to have both foreplay and afterplay. The latter is often forgotten.

I will give you a play by play (just kidding) after the game.

Which reminds me of a joke: If you smoke after sex, you're doing it too fast.

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Is there an orthogonal dimension in which I didn't have to read this discussion?

[AArdvark]

Now I'm having a shower martini to cleanse my mind and body

[raecoffey]

Is there an orthogonal dimension in which I didn't have to read this discussion?

Yes, it's called "The Adventurers Guild."

[Jizaboz]

You start to forget..
The things you should remember.
And you can't stop remembering
the things you should forget.

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So my boyfriend has an appointment with his doc on March 17th. So we will be getting lucky on St. Patrick's day. This will be an interesting experiment in patience as we've been together, and waiting to , for 10 months.

I will give you a play by play (just kidding) after the game.

FYI, this being the case then you should really ask him for stuff you need. I have a wife that does that constantly even when she knows I'm broke. Happy for you to try calling.

[Tdarcos]

Is there an orthogonal dimension in which I didn't have to read this discussion?

Yeah, it's called "don't click on the thread" or the "click the close box on the tab or the window."

[Tdarcos]

FYI, this being the case then you should really ask him for stuff you need. I have a wife that does that constantly even when she knows I'm broke. Happy for you to try calling.

No, no, no, contraception is first and foremost the woman's responsibility. No, I am not being mysoginistiic or chauvanist, just recognizing the facts of biology. She is the one who faces the consequences of pregnancy, either the risks of carrying a child, or the issues involved in getting an abortion. Women are the civilizing force of men, they are the ones who must either make sure they use it correctly (if using a female-related method: birth control pills, implant, diaphragm, female condom, insertables) or that he does (if using a male-related one: condoms or male alternatives.) While men should also take a role in seeing they use contraception if he does not want, or can't afford, a child, she's the one who can force the issue by making contraceptive use a requirement for her to consent.

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[Not-so-casual Observer]

So my boyfriend has an appointment with his doc on March 17th. So we will be getting lucky on St. Patrick's day. This will be an interesting experiment in patience as we've been together, and waiting to , for 10 months.

I will give you a play by play (just kidding) after the game.

FYI, this being the case then you should really ask him for stuff you need. I have a wife that does that constantly even when she knows I'm broke. Happy for you to try calling.

Thanks for your assumptions Eric,
But let me set some things straight...

I typed a really long response to this but....
You are getting the short one.

When I told you how bad I had it financially, i.e. I have 200 for all of my bills outside of rent/rge/some meals per month (thats 50$ a week), you said you would try to help. You asked here. They didn't help. You condemned them for not helping. Not only did you not help me buy 1 thing that I desperately needed, catheter bags on Amazon for around 30 dollars, you said you would and then left me hanging! You did not read or answer my inbox messages on LinkedIn, a professional social media site. How professional is that? How can I trust you to pay me for working for you when you just ghost me when I'm being polite, friendly and wanting to work for you? Oh and my boyfriend is in the same boat as me because he lives here, but I only have 1 grandchild to buy for. He has several grands and kids to buy for!

[Tdarcos]

When I told you how bad I had it financially,

Rae, is this you? I feel for you. Send me your ID and what payment service you use and I'll send you something. Or I can get you an Amazon or Visa card.I don't have much but I'd like to help.

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Alright, now it's getting good!

[Not-so-casual Observer]

When I told you how bad I had it financially,

Rae, is this you? I feel for you. Send me your ID and what payment service you use and I'll send you something. Or I can get you an Amazon or Visa card.I don't have much but I'd like to help.

Amazon is perfect.

[Not-so-casual Observer]

Alright, now it's getting good!

It won't get good until Eric comes forth from the shadows of the interweb, and declares himself a misogynist piece of shit for assuming that I am only worth something if I am a fuck toy.

Wait my man is getting viagra! Woo-hoo for him right??? No bitches, woo-hoo for me!!! That shit is long without getting hard, it's gonna scratch me in all the right places!

[Ice Cream Jonsey]

What happened to your previous account?

[Not-so-casual Observer]

My phone is in a bag of rice. It landed in a garbage can full of my puke. Stomach bug. I'm ok.

[Not-so-casual Observer]

Ahh, my bot for Facebook posts
are apparently coming here.
Lmfao

[Not-so-casual Observer]

How the fuck did auto correct write about a bot?

[Not-so-casual Observer]

The word was "posts."