raecoffey wrote: Sun Mar 05, 2023 1:16 am
So my boyfriend has an appointment with his doc on March 17th. So we will be getting lucky on St. Patrick's day.
I'm not surprised he'd want Viagra, as opposed to the alternative. I am surprised how anyone would want to take Ciallis after their commercials showed once the guy used it, if they both bathed, their house disintegrated. I thought this stuff was to make things stand up, not fall apart!
And now this message probably won't post since it named both ED drugs, it trips the spam filter!
raecoffey wrote: Sun Mar 05, 2023 1:16 amThis will be an interesting experiment in patience as we've been together, and waiting to , for 10 months.
If you don't already have it, buy a bottle of personal lubricant. After a long period of waiting you might not lubricate as much, or as easily. Don't use vaseline; any oil-baded or petroleum-based products can and will eat holes in latex contraceotives.
As for contraceptipn, make sure the two of you have decided in advance what you're going to use. If either of you has a latex allergy, they have condoms in vinyl.
If both of you have no STI's you can transfer, there are non-barrier methods such as diaphragm with foam or contraceptive film.
The "rhythm method" is not a valud form of contraceprion! There is a technical term for women who depend on the rhythm method. Mothers. "Pulling out" or the man withdrawing just before his orgasm is a really bad idea as far ad contraception is concerned.
If you want almosr perfect protection, use two forms simultaneously, like condoms and film. This is one pkace where mathematics is useful. Any form.of contraceptive can fail, some worse tgan others. But the potential failure probability for multiple forms is not the sum, but the product. So if one uses two forms each with a failure probability of 3% the potential for combined failure drops from in 3 in 100 or probability of 0.03, to .09%; 9 in 10,000 or a probability of 0.0009.
"If you aren' t comfortable discussing contraception with your partner, you're not ready to have sex.'
You might both be too excited about getting busy. Slow down and take time. You can always try again in an hour or so. Plan to have both foreplay and afterplay. The latter is often forgotten.
raecoffey wrote: Sun Mar 05, 2023 1:16 amI will give you a play by play (just kidding) after the game.
Which reminds me of a joke: If you smoke after sex, you're doing it too fast.