by Draal » Tue Jan 23, 2007 5:53 pm
Attended a "game day party" accidently two weeks ago, when I happened to find myself over at a house finishing a project.
Theres a projector in the next room, and I went over and I allowed myself nachos, assorted dips, and pizza from the fare spread out on the table, and heard crying while my back was turned.
It was a friend crying over the game, a girl I attended a funeral with who didn't display any of the usual "grief by crying" protocols and she is jumping all around, screaming, flaying with everyone else, and crying for joy or sorrow.
There isn't a set event that calls forth a certain emotion or reaction; to everyone in the room, this was acceptable. A tension was in the air as well, with the jeering, jumping, running, and the response, energy, attention, that the game was being by everyone in the room.
The great social structure, calls forth this response when something is taken away or in peril; a life that cannot be restored, or an item or object that is dear. Except all these objects are tied to a persons reaction by the value that they are given, a certain willingness to act in a certain way because of the memory the previous state of the object was given, and a created awareness, a self willed force stature, of doing what is believed to be acceptable by those around them.
It'd be simple to "cry" and become agitated if anything someone has invested themselves in, suddenly became something else (at least to that person, maybe a quick change of perspective), especially when this action is reinforced by those around them. The normalcy contradicts the viewed reality.
Crying over the game was a reaction because of her investment, and gradual progression of physical agitation over the course of the event? Moving from watching, to paying attention, being tense over the next move, and then finally standing and screaming for the team.
A progression of thought and attention.
Attended a "game day party" accidently two weeks ago, when I happened to find myself over at a house finishing a project.
Theres a projector in the next room, and I went over and I allowed myself nachos, assorted dips, and pizza from the fare spread out on the table, and heard crying while my back was turned.
It was a friend crying over the game, a girl I attended a funeral with who didn't display any of the usual "grief by crying" protocols and she is jumping all around, screaming, flaying with everyone else, and crying for joy or sorrow.
There isn't a set event that calls forth a certain emotion or reaction; to everyone in the room, this was acceptable. A tension was in the air as well, with the jeering, jumping, running, and the response, energy, attention, that the game was being by everyone in the room.
The great social structure, calls forth this response when something is taken away or in peril; a life that cannot be restored, or an item or object that is dear. Except all these objects are tied to a persons reaction by the value that they are given, a certain willingness to act in a certain way because of the memory the previous state of the object was given, and a created awareness, a self willed force stature, of doing what is believed to be acceptable by those around them.
It'd be simple to "cry" and become agitated if anything someone has invested themselves in, suddenly became something else (at least to that person, maybe a quick change of perspective), especially when this action is reinforced by those around them. The normalcy contradicts the viewed reality.
Crying over the game was a reaction because of her investment, and gradual progression of physical agitation over the course of the event? Moving from watching, to paying attention, being tense over the next move, and then finally standing and screaming for the team.
A progression of thought and attention.